For most people, "Power Leaks" is a new concept.
However the experience of them is not.
In fact, they will be more familiar to you than you may realise.
You may just use a different terminology.
I use Power Leaks because the visual imagery summarizes it in a nutshell.
So what are Power Leaks and exactly how do they cause problems in your relationship?
Say you would like to have a deeper connection with your romantic partner.
Like whose putting out the rubbish, what you're having for dinner and just generally complaining within earshot about everything that the other person is doing wrong.
The tit-for-tat game.
Which is leaving you feeling frustrated, exhausted and irritated (and no doubt your partner too).
The desire for the deeper connection that you were seeking, soon evaporates, you give up and the cycle repeats itself.
A new day, a new argument.
Resentment builds and you're like a bull at a red flag, triggered by every little thing.
And if left unchecked it can go from annoying, petty little arguments to full blown contempt.
In fact, contempt is so bad, renowned marriage researcher Dr. John Gottman of The Gottman Institute has identified it as the single best predicator of divorce and found that it also has a direct effect on the immune system, with couples who have contempt for each other being more likely to suffer from infectious illnesses (colds, the flu, etc) than other people.
This is what Power Leaks look like.
When you are not aware of them, when they are coded into your way of being, you are literally paying for their presence in your life by way of energy, time, health, happiness and yes - even financially.
Think of it like this; Power Leaks can be likened to that of a boat with holes in it's hull.
If a boat hull has holes in it, whether it has many small holes or a big gaping hole like that which the Titanic suffered, the analogy still holds... the boat will eventually sink.
And if it doesn't sink straight away, it definitely creates a whole lot of drag, extra work and energy expenditure that makes everything else much harder because of it.
Maybe you could just start bailing water to offset the leaks?
Two words: Good luck.
Because you haven't actually dealt with the heart of the issue, so the Power Leaks will just continue.
All energy and focus goes towards keeping the boat from sinking instead of other things that could be just as important, like finding a way to plug the leak(s) and whether there are other factors to be taken into consideration, such as your personal safety, calling the coastguard for help, or whether there is land nearby in case you need to swim to shore.
You get the point.
Bailing water with a thimble is exhausting... for everyone involved.
Not to mention the little results relevant to the massive effort.
And a Power Leak will show up when you know you need to sort things out with your partner to get back on track and instead you find every excuse under the sun to avoid doing just that.
Avoidance looks like: spending longer time at work, continuing long after everyone else has gone home - just so you can avoid going home and dealing with your partner.
It looks like being really focused only on what you want while completely disregarding the other persons needs on purpose.
And it looks like plugging in your earphones, turning on your notebook and putting up a virtual wall, by numbing your brain with a documentary on all the problems of the world instead of sitting down with your partner to resolve the problem at home, the problem between the two of you.
Sure, it might seem like a smart move at the time and yes sometimes avoidance even has its place (like when you choose to shop online instead of driving to the madness of the mall for Christmas shopping), but the fact is it's really only hurting you more, wasting your energy, your time and your life that could instead be invested in love and understanding.
And it's hurting both of you.
Of course, if it continues, much like the Titanic scenario, a lack of vigilance - especially for the unseen potential threats or the things you aren't aware of (life has a funny way of throwing curve balls doesn't it?!) - which could result in a massive argument (iceberg) suddenly appearing on the horizon and tearing a huge, gaping, irreparable hole in your relationship - with no lifeboat in sight.
And we all know how that story ended; tragedy.
One that with hindsight - could easily have been avoided.
Look, I know how much hard work a relationship can be.
Sometimes you do feel exhausted.
Yes, it's really easy to be annoyed with, point the finger and to stay angry at the other person when you've been arguing so much.
And yes, it's nice to fantasize about the joys of being single (the grass always looks greener....).
And yes, to the frustration of getting all up in your head about everything and then getting stuck there.
The problem is you're suffering from Power Leaks.
And you shouldn't have to.
This is the reason I created the revolutionary PΞRSONAL ALKHΞMY™.
Because once you learn how to master your power, you can unleash your highest potential in life, love and business.
You will transform.
Which means your relationship will automatically transform along with you.
This pictures explains how it works it in a simple snapshot:
1) Keep doing what you've always done and stick to what you know, riding it out until things get better for a bit before the next problem rears its ugly head, OR
2) Do something about it and take a different approach because you want to become more empowered, have more peace in your life and ultimately you do want a deeper connection with your significant other
I designed PΞRSONAL ALKHΞMY™ to help you master your power so that you can discover the Power Leak that is causing the problem, transform it, redirect the energy back to you and get on with your life the way you want to, with greater vitality, enjoying yourself and yes, having the initimacy in your relationship that you deserve.
If you'd like to learn more about how PΞRSONAL ALKHΞMY™ may be the solution you are looking for to enhance your relationships and your life, then click here for free video training.
Click the link, sign up and you will be well on your way to discovering why Power Leaks occur in the first place and the easy steps you can take to transform them so that you can reclaim your power and happiness.
Dani Andersen is what you get when you mix a Business Coach + Life Coach + Entrepreneur with a Healer, a Psychic Intuitive, an Egyptian High Priestess and a dose of sassy attitude to boot!
Dani uses her innate spiritual gifts and laser-like intuition to see where you have power imblances and then works with you to activate your true power so that you can unleash your full potential and finally create the quantum leaps you desire and put a dent in the universe - the way you were designed to.
Born intuitive and coming from an ancestral line of healers, Dani is a body/energy worker, certified as a Biodynamic Craniosacral Therapist and creator of two healing modalities that help people overcome overwhelm and anxiety issues. She holds certification in Strategic Intervention and as an Advanced Relationship Coach. Dani is also a sales expert, trainer and top performer in the NZ automotive sector, having sold $100 million in finance and insurance sales.
The Queen of ALKHΞMY™, Dani Andersen works with conscious Entrepreneurs & Leaders who want to unlock their full potential and make their dreams a reality by helping them to activate their true power so that they can play big, live powerfully and lead fearlessly.
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